You are very right, Megan. Thank you for that feedback. I did reflect on that for a while after I submitted it but could no longer edit the article. I am Asian and often get asked that question and love talking about it but it is loaded with danger and may be inappropriately intimate. I agree that your suggestion is far better. Thank you for the constructive feedback. It helps me be a more thoughtful writer.

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