To All the Asian Men I Never Loved — I’m Sorry

A brutally honest look at my racist biases towards my own race

My friend “Handsome Ryan” — a real-life example of an attractive Asian male. Photo used with permission.

“I’m just not into Asian guys,” I would say flippantly as I dated my way through the rainbow of white, brown, black, and olive-skinned men.

“I’m not sure why,” I would say.