The Latest, the Greatest and Articles by Category

An easy index to help you navigate to the parts of my writing you enjoy

If you’re reading this, then the first thing I want to say is thank you. Your support means more than you know and I hope that you will reach out one day and leave a comment or say hi. I created this index to help you find my latest work easier. I also sorted the rest of my work by most popular and by category so you can read more of what you like and ignore more of what you don’t. Enjoy!

The Art of Thoughtfully Approaching People You’re Interested In

Use This Simple Intimacy Concept to Attract People to You

A Unique Way to Free Yourself from Self Blame — Internal Family Systems

How to Instantly Improve Your Memory by Arousing Your Brain

What I Learned from 5 Years of Cold Showers (That I Didn’t After a Year)

My 10-Year-Old Niece Gave the Best Relationship Advice. Experts Agree.

Junk Dating is Like Junk Food for Your Soul. Don’t Do It.

You May Be Unknowingly Blocking Love. Here Are 3 Steps to Allow It In

Powerful Questions to Improve Your Dating Self-Confidence Right Now #1

How to Instantly Create Intimacy With Any Person You Meet

How to Get the Unquantifiable Benefits of Cold Showers

The 5 Traits People Will Secretly Adore You For

The First and Most Important Rule of Any Relationship

No, How Are You, Really?

These Two Models Define the Success or Failure of Your Relationship

Do You Feel Like You Suck at Dating and Online Profiles?

Take the 2-Second Litmus Test for Any Relationship

“The Bookend” — An Easy Metric To Know if Your Relationship is a Keeper

5 Ways You Are Unknowingly Showing Your Insecurity When Dating

A Free and Unique Valentine Gift That Will Blow Your Partner Away

How to Build a Community That Will Actually Show Up for You

Why You Keep Getting Friendzoned and How to Fix It

An Introvert’s Secrets To Creating Great Conversations Without Saying Much

This Researcher Wants to Prescribe Masturbation as Medication

You Can’t Always Get Closure From People You Want It From

My Unconditional Offer to You

9 Signs You Can’t Save Your Relationship

Why You Should Try An Open Relationship to Reignite Your Spark

All Relationships Fall Into These Two Categories

5 Ways to Gain the Magical Happiness of Many Small Joys

You May Have A Secret Dating Superpower

Decode Your Love Interest By Sensing Their Attachment Style

You’ve Heard of Ghosting but What About Haunting and Caspering?

Best Ways to Meet People In Real Life That Convert to Actual Relationships

The Science of Sexy — 5 Alluring Traits That Have Nothing To Do with Looks

How to Instantly Make People Feel Good — Lessons From a Legend

You May Be Staying Too Long in Your Relationship Due to Sunk Cost Fallacy

5 Hopeful Thoughts for Recently Single People

Give a Different Kind of Gift This Valentine’s Day

Dear Asian Men, I’m Sorry

First Date Questions to Escape the Friend Zone

4 Ways You May Be Giving Your Personal Power Away

How to Connect Deeper with Others Using the Lost Art of Sensual Touch

5 Subtle Acts of Love That You Deserve More Than Grand Gestures

How to Ask Santa for the Person of Your Dreams This Christmas

How to Actually Talk to Women

5 Signs That You’re About to Be Ghosted

Are You Really Ready to Date?

How to Train Your Boyfriend

Why You Keep Having the Same Relationship Over and Over Again

How to Change Someone’s Life in Less Than 10 Minutes

If You’re Feeling Lost Or Stuck, This Is Who You Need To Ask For Advice

What Would You Do If You Knew You Couldn’t Fail?

How to Choose the Right People to Be in Your Life

How to Ask for What You Need

Fasting for 3 days every 3 months gives me clarity-but there’s a right way to go about it.

The Simplest Emotional Control Hack

How to Change the Voice Inside Your Head

Are You a Carrot, an Egg, or a Coffee Bean?

How Bruce Lee and Russian Trains Can Shake Up Your Self Care Right Now