No offense taken :). As mentioned in the article, it’s really important for your date to pay attention to you as a person and assess if you would be comfortable answering those questions. Of course, there are no guaranteed tips and it does say in the intro that most people are more comfortable with small talk conversation. I appreciate you taking the time to leave a response and share your opinions. It definitely helps everyone reading the article and creates more rounded discussion around the topic.So, thank you!