I'm so sorry you've had that happen to you. The first thing I want to say is that it is definitely not your fault! I've had multiple people message me (including people who did the ghosting) saying that ghosting is a reflection of someone's lack of self-love and emotional health. Did you feel like this signs were present when you got ghosted? I'd love to try and understand this pattern of people who keep getting ghosted and hear more from you (as much or as little as you would like to share). Please feel free to write to me at firstname.lastname@example.org. Also, thank you for taking the time to leave a response. It always means a lot.