I'm so so sorry for what you must be going through, Kirsten. I can't even begin to imagine what that must feel like. I'm glad that something I wrote was helpful to you. Thank you for taking the time and having the courage to share this. Sending you big virtual hugs and lots of love.

I don't know if this will help, but shortly after the events that inspired this article, I met my boyfriend and he is wonderful in ways I never would have imagined. It's been several years now, and each day continues to be better. I would never experienced it had it not ended with the partner before. So, I do really believe that letting go of your husband will mean a greater love will be available to you.