Hi Vivek! I’m not sure why I didn’t see this comment when you wrote it but I just want to say thank you for taking the time to share your experiences and leave a comment. It always means a lot. I actually have a piece that I think would be very relevant to you. This is the link. I’d also love to hear more about any insights you might have about why this keeps happening. Please feel free to write to me at maeyalily@gmail.com if you wish to share more.