Hi Anopheles! I know how you feel! I was very much like Cooper as well and still can occasionally feel myself defaulting back to it. That’s amazing that you put in so much deep work to change and improve. As for your question on what can be done, I can talk about this for hours. What we project out into the world and the nuances of how it influences our relationships. The answers are too long a discussion for the comments section. Would be happy to connect and chat if you like. Please feel free to reach out to me at may@mojomint.com.