I suppose “because I told you to” probably isn’t good enough…

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No, it doesn’t require years of knowing them or large sums of money.

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Sometimes it’s them, but mostly it’s probably you.

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Her research shows that orgasms can even induce mystical experiences the way psychedelics can.

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“The biggest misconception about sex is that using sex to feel better is unhealthy” — Dr. Nicole Prause.

But there are ways to create closure for yourself

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With examples on how to expertly insert them into almost any conversation

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One that changed my life and one I’m making to you

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Sometimes, it’s not about you at all.


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