You “think” it will feel better than it actually does, and you’ll definitely feel worse after. — “Seriously, she’s been making eyes at you for an hour. Go talk to her,” I nudged my friend, Desmond. “Ugh, I can’t. I got a date,” he responded forlornly. “You sound excited,” I laughed. “Well…I don’t actually think it’ll amount to anything. I’m not really that interested in her, but…